Updated: Jul 30
Vlogging, Covid-19 and how we can stay connected
Well, that was a curveball I didn’t see coming! Covid-19 has taken the world for a spin and we are now forced into confinement. Some are leveraging that time to do the things they love and reorganize their lives, as others are stuck in an excruciating limbo, waiting to go back to their activities. In my case, I’m enjoying a much-needed resting period and have taken this opportunity to reorient my efforts to achieve more satisfaction in my work and my passions. One of the changes I have brought to my domination services is the introduction of vlogging as part of my content creation. I’m not fond of self-filming but the circumstances being what they are, I’m curious to see where it will take me.
My world tour came to an abrupt end while borders closed and propagation was imminent. Before my departure, the situation was starting to stabilize in China and I decided to go ahead cautiously. In less than a week, things spun out of control as the world faced an unprecedented pandemic. From Melbourne, I chose to take refuge in Singapore at my dear friend’s place, Caittrin Lee, and she welcomed me with open arms. It was one of the safest countries to be in at the time due to the efficient handling of their initial wave of Coronavirus. Within 3 days, Canadian authorities demanded that all its citizens return immediately, and as I left my favourite travel destination, no more than 24 hours later, Singaporean authorities started expelling all foreigners. I rode the cusp of the border closures shockwave, witnessed empty airports on my return, experienced the desperate attempts of the aviation industry to contain the spread and I came back, mask on, hand sanitizer within reach, ready to self-isolate until further notice. I am well, I am safe, even if my budget is not the best since my tour cancellation, but I will manage.
Having taken the time to stabilize and reflect for a week it came to me that I was in for something beyond simple confinement and introspection; my great tour will be accomplished around our inner worlds rather than around our planet. Instead of me coming to you, you will come to me in a virtual fashion and hop on a trip inside our universes. I’m such an outgoing sensory-driven explorer that it never occurred to me that my journeys could unfold while staying exactly where I am. Travelling is one of my dearest passions and I obviously leveraged it through my work, but now it’s time to think differently and maybe address my other beloved vocation: learning. The sapiophile that I am always awaits to learn more about everything and anything. From geography to biochemistry, to arts and health, to food and more food, to mad science and spirituality, very little escapes my scope. I believe my eagerness to experience what life has to offer can be nurtured in diving deeper into the depths of the human soul to nourish my insatiable curiosity with the tales and stories of those reaching out to me.
To come back to a part of the title for this blog post, a little more on vlogging. Well, having to integrate virtual society to promote my craft and evolve, I had to figure out my voice in this highly competitive environment. I carried little interest in video production before, except when being joined by friends, and definitely don’t intend to become something that is against my nature. I’m not an actress and could not act even if my survival depended on it, so I had to figure out a way to be heard without compromising my integrity. I’m already committed to my blogging and have found great pleasure in writing, so what if those videos are about my real thoughts and feelings? Speaking to the lifeless glass eye of my camera is NOT natural so you will have to bear with me till I settle into this new creative medium. Video is the number one communication tool of this era and I’m confronted by the steep learning curve to master this skill. In time, one baby step after another, I hope to reach some decency in my production. I don’t know if it’s something I will keep doing after this crisis is over, only time will tell depending on the response of my followers and rate of return in this endeavour of mine. Like most things I do, if I end up liking it, I will carry on regardless of the cost because it will be something that matters to me.
Being a hands-on, intuitive, adaptive and organic Dominatrix, my early experimentations with self-filming were inconclusive, to put it mildly. You could say, I’m a “real-time” Mistress, as much as I dislike this internet jargon expression. To me, time is always real, whether you use it wisely on what is important to you, or waste it on escapes. Two years ago, I tried my best to make some POV erotic videos and it was awful! I hated every moment of it and I ain't doing it again (disgust goosebumps). So please, no custom video requests; I have absolutely no interest in conventional adult content creation. Don’t grow too many hopes for jerking off to my moving image. Again, I’m not an actress and I despise the use of scripts in my domination. I have plenty of creativity and active neurons to find my own interesting things to do, thank you. Also, don't try to control or change who I am. I’m very happy with myself and I expect my submissives to serve me because they like who I am and not because they want to dump their agenda on me. I'm not going to be anyone’s visual sex toy. You won’t impose your fantasy projections on me and, despite mainstream tendencies, I will fight not to be dumbed down into some sort of a masturbation tool.
By the way, I tip my hat to all the wonderful adult content creators out there who can participate in this difficult trade. Please know that I admire those who can make erotic videos - it takes an incredible amount of patience and resilience. You have much thicker skin than I do. In my case, I lose my shit on those opinionated, can’t do anything on their own but will abundantly criticize, useless wanker twats that consume those products. Hence why I will not entertain or accommodate that audience.
Now that we have cleared that up, here is what I’m interested in: nurturing our essential need to connect. Feeding our craving for acceptance and understanding. Offering a place to explore our humanity together in a perfectly imperfect way. Embracing our eccentricities and cultivating our originality. Those are matters in which I desire to invest my time and energy in. If you intend to interact with me to find out who I truly am and want to reveal your true selves to me, I am here for you. To facilitate that goal, I chose Nitelfirt as my primary platform since it will allow you to tribute me for my valuable time while offering a reliable infrastructure to accommodate our chats. Conversation with me is never an issue no matter how shy, inexperienced or reserved you may be. Anybody who has met me will assess that I can talk endlessly and intelligently, topics won’t falter and directions are infinite. Rest assured that I won’t entertain awkward and/or fake conversations in which we’re supposed to follow a format or some sort of preconceived protocols. I strive for a natural flow where we can be ourselves and have fun.
If you are like me, face to face contact is an integral part of life. This unprecedented global pandemic has deprived so many of that absolutely necessary interaction! Let us take this time and opportunity to get to know each other better. I am happy to cultivate a distance D/s relationship if you wish; if and when we are ready to meet in person, we will have covered all the initial elements and can dive fully into enjoying our physical presence. I invite you to send me a chat request on Niteflirt, to open our lines of communication. I do offer alternative methods of contact should you not be able to use Niteflirt, due to credit card restrictions of some countries for example. You can also use the contact request form on my website.
I am eager to establish an honest, powerful connection with you, to learn all about you, and reciprocate in kind. Without judgement, let me probe the depth of your kinky soul, and add another willing, loyal slave to my stable.